Ok, a relatively serious question.. i think lol.. but it has left me wondering if i am going nuts.
long story short.. been in a relationship for 15 years, married for 12, marriage went stale 7 years ago.. i finally kicked him out for being a complete waste of space (he was messing around with at least 3 other women, couldnt support me emotionally or financially..) and we just werent 'together' anymore'
i guess i gave it one last 'chance' to see if there was still anything between us.. and no.. there wasnt (we slept together one night.. and had a massive argument the next.)
that weekend i went out to a club (something i dont really like lol) and met a guy.... here's the dilemma.
I'm 40, he's 20!
I got talking to him by accident, i turned around quite quickly and knocked him, apologised, found out he was scottish.. and i said (as a joke) get your coat you've pulled! well.. that was the ice breaker lol.. we got chatting, found out immediately that he was so young, he was from scotland but is in the navy hence based down here, he's single and he knows about classic fords. in return i told him i was 40 (he said i didnt look it lol) i'd recently separated from my husband, i was out only to have a laugh and a giggle and though he was sweet.. i'm not that sort of person. it was all good.. we were chatting for quite a while.. he not only made me smile, he made me laugh.
the naughty bit.. hmm.. i did end up taking him home /blush.
i didnt expect to see him again, or hear from him.. but he did text me that week.. and then yeah.. he went quiet lol.
but then.. 3 weeks later (and in the same club no less) i bumped into him again, we got talking again, he made me laugh again.. and yeah.. i took him home again! lol i guess we clicked in a way that i never thought possible.. and lets face it.. it's a boost to the ego that someone so young (and fit) found me attractive.. an even bigger bonus that he came back again!
so now the dilemma... am i in the wrong because of his age/our age difference? the girls where i work say yes.. they say it's disgusting
but then they are all in their early-mid twenties.. go out pretty much every weekend.. and cant 'pull' where as me (the old woman) goes out twice in a blue moon.. and cops off with a hunk lol. Are they just jealous perhaps? or am i in the wrong?
(and at this time i'm not expecting anything long term.. he's a navy lad after all, and he's got his whole life in front of him.. however he is the perfect gent and he has contacted me since.. well.. the physical side.....)